April Update From The Autism Society of the RMWB
We were also invited to the Wellness Fair at Peter Pond Mall. Groups from the region that promote mental and physical health were invited to have a booth and do talks about their organizations and what they provide for the community. It was a great to chance for us to share about what we do.
We are fundraising hanging baskets from Meadow Creek Greenhouses until the end of April, for delivery in May. So far the fundraiser is going very well!
We also hosted a Swim for a Toonie event at MacDonald Island on April 2nd, World Autism Awareness day! We offered sensory items for sale, information packages and displays, pins, and tickets for our Gala. We had a great turnout, and it was a very successful day!
This month our President Kirsti Mardell and our Vice President Corinna O’Hanley had the chance to present at the Autism Leadership Summit in Ottawa. These ladies had a lot to share, and we hope they inspired other parents around Canada to "Do Something" by building capacity for ASD in their own rural remote communities.
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Support 4 Mom’s Society monthly support meetings
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An Autism Awareness Art Gala on April 22nd, featuring comedian Don Burnstick
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A Paint Night fundraiser for Mother’s Day, May 14th
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A Hot Dog Stand on July 22-23, courtesy of Home Hardware
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Urban Market in the summer
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Destined to Win
Free Autism Parenting Workshop in Stettler
Kitty will also be hosting a workship in Ponoka on May 13 – Click here to see the poster
Applying for the Disability Tax Credit
- I want to raise awareness of this tax credit and the RDSP so that people are aware of them and know what they entail.
- I want to help people get approved..
- I want young people (aged 49 and younger) to take advantage of the RDSP, since it does have an age cutoff at 50.
Henson Trusts and Your Child’s Future
Henson Trust Legislation in Alberta
Brian Malkinson, MLA for Calgary Currie, has sponsored a private members’ bill in the Alberta Legislature to allow for Henson Trusts in Alberta. A Henson Trust is used to hold an inheritance for the benefit of a handicapped individual, without affecting their eligibility for income support programs like Alberta Income Support for the Handicapped (AISH). Alberta remains the only jurisdiction in Canada that does not allow for this type of discretionary Henson Trust. The trusts were originally made possible in 1989 by the Supreme Court of Ontario, when it ruled that trust assets were not vested in the beneficiary and thus could not be used to terminate government benefit programs.
We Want to Hear From You!
Two Exciting Fundraisers for Autism Calgary
Fratello Coffee (www.fratellocoffee.com) is partnering with Autism Calgary to release their limited time-only blend — “Full Spectrum Blend” in honour of Autism Awareness Day!
This blend is described as "An El Salvador Roast with deep chocolate, caramel and a clean body as well as spiced cocoa flavour. Perfect for any type of coffee including french press or drip."
Your morning cup of joe will taste even better knowing you supported families living with autism in Calgary! All funds raised go to support Autism Calgary.
Click here to buy your bag today for only $20
Mother’s Day Silent Auction: RedBloom Salon (www.redbloom.ca/east-vi
We thought this would be lovely way to treat your Mom, yourself, your wife, or sister while supporting an amazing cause.
- The Stress Fix Basket (Aveda Stress Fix products) worth $200
- The Hair Care Basket (Aveda hair and skin care products) worth $200
- A gift certificate for a cut and colour by senior stylist, Annah at the Red Bloom East Village Salon worth $200-$280
Creepy By Any Other Name
Growing up in Edmonton, I was accustomed to people acting uncomfortable around me. As I transitioned from being a violent child with serious impulse control issues to an awkward-but-harmless adolescent, people no longer had to physically restrain me. They did, however, have to deal with the elephant in the room – how to interact with someone who made them uncomfortable with his mere presence. Whether it was my aversion to eye contact, my awkward body language, my monotone voice, or my odd way with words, there was something about me that made them feel profoundly uneasy. Sometimes they would just search for a discreet excuse to break away from our conversation as quickly as possible. On rare occasions, they would be less polite, and would throw the "C" word my way: creepy. And of course, it hurt – terribly.
It took me a long time to realize that I had a powerful tool at my disposal to dispel people’s discomfort: disclosure. Especially in recent years, as Asperger’s and high-functioning autism have, frankly, become hip, just saying the words "I have Asperger’s Syndrome" can replace people’s discomfort with a kind of awed fascination and curiousity. On a good day, I might even meet an attractive woman with a long-time crush on Sheldon from The Big Bang Theory, and my disclosure will be met with a million well-intentioned questions. Disclosing in these low-stakes social settings seems like an easy way to earn brownie points, but I don’t do it as much as I could. Partly it just doesn’t occur to me – when I’m in the middle of a social situation, I can rarely think straight. Sometimes I think it’s none of their damn business. And sometimes, I just can’t handle the condescension.
It’s silly, really. With a few words, I go from being some random creep to being a fascinating puzzle – perhaps with some amazing talent just waiting to be discovered. Or I become a very mildly disabled individual who needs to be coddled just a little bit – don’t worry, he’s just a bit different – he has Asperger’s.
But in a way it’s all silly, isn’t it? It’s not just autism that is a spectrum – humanity is. I know it’s a cliche, but we’re all weird in our own way. Labels might be useful for treating and accommodating certain conditions, but they shouldn’t create some artificial dividing line between people who are "normal", people who are disabled, and people who are just plain weird. There’s the temptation to use my diagnosis as a "get out of jail free" card – to receive special treatment that I don’t really need. But with all of the severe impairments that exist among the genuinely disabled, it feels like a cheat. If I do have any impairment, it’s that some people react negatively to the way I present myself – and that might be more their disability than mine. I’m also aware that labeling your problems away is not a luxury that exists for people who don’t have a trendy diagnosis to name-drop – for those who are merely creepy. I only hope that all of us – including me – can try to muster some compassion for the unique challenges that every human being faces, from the severely impaired to the merely quirky, and even the "normal" people who still have their own hardships to endure. The challenges we face may not be equal, but we all deserve the chance to be understood and loved as individuals.
Out of Sight
Introducing the #GetToKnow Project and #YEGWAAD
Autism Edmonton and Adarius 4 Autism are proud to launch the #GetToKnow Project: A joint initiative to promote awareness, understanding and acceptance of Autism Spectrum Disorder. The #GetToKnow project is an interactive and informative presentation designed to be shared with students in Grades 4-12, and includes a full video and #GetToKnow Guide for educators to run the activities in their classroom or school. The #GetToKnow Guide includes the exercise descriptions as well as talking points for teachers to facilitate a conversation about autism with their students following each activity.
For those of us in the autism community, every day is autism awareness day – but we are still happy to celebrate the opportunity to promote awareness and acceptance. World Autism Awareness Day was held on April 2 and Autism Edmonton held a unique event we called #YEGWAAD!