April Update From The Autism Society of the RMWB
Happy Autism Awareness Month from the Autism Society of the RMWB!
We were also invited to the Wellness Fair at Peter Pond Mall. Groups from the region that promote mental and physical health were invited to have a booth and do talks about their organizations and what they provide for the community. It was a great to chance for us to share about what we do.
We are fundraising hanging baskets from Meadow Creek Greenhouses until the end of April, for delivery in May. So far the fundraiser is going very well!
We also hosted a Swim for a Toonie event at MacDonald Island on April 2nd, World Autism Awareness day! We offered sensory items for sale, information packages and displays, pins, and tickets for our Gala. We had a great turnout, and it was a very successful day!
We had about sixty people show up for our annual Sensory Friendly Easter Egg Hunt courtesy of Dunvegan Gardens.
This month our President Kirsti Mardell and our Vice President Corinna O’Hanley had the chance to present at the Autism Leadership Summit in Ottawa. These ladies had a lot to share, and we hope they inspired other parents around Canada to “Do Something” by building capacity for ASD in their own rural remote communities.
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Support 4 Mom’s Society monthly support meetings
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An Autism Awareness Art Gala on April 22nd, featuring comedian Don Burnstick
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A Paint Night fundraiser for Mother’s Day, May 14th
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A Hot Dog Stand on July 22-23, courtesy of Home Hardware
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Urban Market in the summer
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Destined to Win
Sometimes it is hard to admit when you’ve fallen into a hole. Perhaps you know the hole? It’s the one we tumble into from time to time when the everyday challenges we are presented with become a little too daunting. Last fall I fell into one of those daunting holes. It felt deep and dark, and the more I scrambled to get out of it, the further I fell.
He is different, and everything inside of them said it was wrong. He talks too loud, plays too close, gets angry too quickly, touches too much. Their inside voice screamed for them to move away from this child – my child – and I struggled deeply with reminding myself to understand where they were coming from.
Suddenly the last four years and the never-ending amount of learning and relearning I, myself – as an adult – have had to do danced through my mind. Even after four years, I am “still kind of new” to autism. What right did I have to take it personally that these children didn’t understand my son’s differences?A team, I now understand, that is destined to win.
Free Autism Parenting Workshop in Stettler
Kitty will also be hosting a workship in Ponoka on May 13
Applying for the Disability Tax Credit
I’d like to share some information with you about the Disability Tax Credit and the RDSP. My passion right now is to help anyone that can benefit have access to both of these programs. I have even started a Facebook group called Disability Tax Credit & RDSP (Canadians Only) in which I have offered my personal assistance in completing the forms. I do not charge a fee to help, and we currently have just below 400 members, some of whom have already been approved and have chosen to continue on to help others. I really just want people to access this and not be overwhelmed by the process. There are a few companies out there that will “help”, but I feel that they are preying on the vulnerability of the disabled. Their fees are excessive, and they would like people to believe that they do a lot to earn that “cut” (20-30% of your return). I honestly feel that this money is much better invested into an RDSP than lining the pockets of people out to make an easy income on the backs of people with disabilities. And to be completely frank, I have seen how inadequately they complete the forms. It’s almost as though they want people to believe that this process is not one they could have handled on their own, and so they almost beg to have the CRA request clarification – all so that the client believes that everyone goes through this additional screening.- I want to raise awareness of this tax credit and the RDSP so that people are aware of them and know what they entail.
- I want to help people get approved..
- I want young people (aged 49 and younger) to take advantage of the RDSP, since it does have an age cutoff at 50.
Under the “Mental Functions for Everyday Life” section, there are 3 subcategories: 1) Adaptive Functioning, 2) Memory, and 3) Problem Solving, Goal-Setting and Judgment. Under each of these three subcategories, there is a list of examples. When completing this form, under the “Effects of Impairment” section, you are asked to describe the effect your disability has on your life and your ability to perform tasks related to every day living. The key here, quite honestly, is to focus in on the examples they provide. For example, if “tasks related to self-care” is a challenge under Adaptive Functioning, then it would be helpful to explain what that entails. For some, it would be requiring something, like prompting for tasks related to grooming. The requirements are similar for Memory and for Problem-Solving, Goal-Setting and Judgment. For the last category, all three must be present.If this is something you haven’t pursued before, or if you have been previously denied and are willing to try again, feel free to join the Facebook group for help. You can apply for the Disability Tax Credit at any point through the year, but with tax time coming to a close, my hope is that now might be a good time to start getting it together. The CRA will go back 10 years and reassess, so even if you have missed out on knowing about this in past years, you can still get the benefit as though you’ve had it all this time. From there, the next step (provided you are under 49) is to set up an RDSP, but that could be a topic for another article.
Henson Trusts and Your Child’s Future
MLA for Calgary Currie Brian Malkinson has brought forth a private member’s bill re-establishing Henson Trusts in Alberta. Henson Trusts are considered absolute discretionary trusts. This means they cannot be left to the person with the severe disability directly, so they cannot be deemed his or her asset. Instead, they are left in a trust, and the appointed trustee can use the funds to improve the quality of life of the beneficiary of the trust (our sons or daughters). This means that if the dishwasher in a severely disabled person’s home suddenly breaks beyond repair, the trustee can purchase a new dishwasher and that money cannot be counted against his or her AISH funds. Depending upon the amount in the Henson Trust, it could mean little things every month that improve the individual’s quality of life – a better diet, a better place to live, better clothing, more activities, courses, travel – whatever contributes to a better life for the individual.Henson Trust Legislation in Alberta
Brian Malkinson, MLA for Calgary Currie, has sponsored a private members’ bill in the Alberta Legislature to allow for Henson Trusts in Alberta. A Henson Trust is used to hold an inheritance for the benefit of a handicapped individual, without affecting their eligibility for income support programs like Alberta Income Support for the Handicapped (AISH). Alberta remains the only jurisdiction in Canada that does not allow for this type of discretionary Henson Trust. The trusts were originally made possible in 1989 by the Supreme Court of Ontario, when it ruled that trust assets were not vested in the beneficiary and thus could not be used to terminate government benefit programs.
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Two Exciting Fundraisers for Autism Calgary

This blend is described as “An El Salvador Roast with deep chocolate, caramel and a clean body as well as spiced cocoa flavour. Perfect for any type of coffee including french press or drip.”
Your morning cup of joe will taste even better knowing you supported families living with autism in Calgary! All funds raised go to support Autism Calgary.
Mother’s Day Silent Auction: RedBloom Salon (www.redbloom.ca/east-vi
We thought this would be lovely way to treat your Mom, yourself, your wife, or sister while supporting an amazing cause.Let’s bid for Autism Calgary!
- The Stress Fix Basket (Aveda Stress Fix products) worth $200
- The Hair Care Basket (Aveda hair and skin care products) worth $200
- A gift certificate for a cut and colour by senior stylist, Annah at the Red Bloom East Village Salon worth $200-$280
Creepy By Any Other Name
The question of when and whether to disclose is one of the central dilemmas for adults with high-functioning autism. Most of the time, the decision is framed in terms of high-stakes situations like job interviews. Often disclosure is seen as a way to receive special accommodations in a professional or school setting. But what about the times when the stakes are lower? What about the times when all that’s at stake is whether someone treats us nicely?
Growing up in Edmonton, I was accustomed to people acting uncomfortable around me. As I transitioned from being a violent child with serious impulse control issues to an awkward-but-harmless adolescent, people no longer had to physically restrain me. They did, however, have to deal with the elephant in the room – how to interact with someone who made them uncomfortable with his mere presence. Whether it was my aversion to eye contact, my awkward body language, my monotone voice, or my odd way with words, there was something about me that made them feel profoundly uneasy. Sometimes they would just search for a discreet excuse to break away from our conversation as quickly as possible. On rare occasions, they would be less polite, and would throw the “C” word my way: creepy. And of course, it hurt – terribly.

It’s silly, really. With a few words, I go from being some random creep to being a fascinating puzzle – perhaps with some amazing talent just waiting to be discovered. Or I become a very mildly disabled individual who needs to be coddled just a little bit – don’t worry, he’s just a bit different – he has Asperger’s.
But in a way it’s all silly, isn’t it? It’s not just autism that is a spectrum – humanity is. I know it’s a cliche, but we’re all weird in our own way. Labels might be useful for treating and accommodating certain conditions, but they shouldn’t create some artificial dividing line between people who are “normal”, people who are disabled, and people who are just plain weird. There’s the temptation to use my diagnosis as a “get out of jail free” card – to receive special treatment that I don’t really need. But with all of the severe impairments that exist among the genuinely disabled, it feels like a cheat. If I do have any impairment, it’s that some people react negatively to the way I present myself – and that might be more their disability than mine. I’m also aware that labeling your problems away is not a luxury that exists for people who don’t have a trendy diagnosis to name-drop – for those who are merely creepy. I only hope that all of us – including me – can try to muster some compassion for the unique challenges that every human being faces, from the severely impaired to the merely quirky, and even the “normal” people who still have their own hardships to endure. The challenges we face may not be equal, but we all deserve the chance to be understood and loved as individuals.
Out of Sight
It’s a nice arena, as far as I can tell. (I haven’t been, honestly. I’m not much for sports spectating, though I’m sure it has its charms as a pastime.) It is, I have been told, an important part of the city’s revitalization project for the downtown core. Just as Rogers Place is a nice arena, “revitalization” is a nice, nice word. A nice idea. Unfortunately, the niceness of it all can hide a rather ugly reality.
As many of you will know, homelessness is an all too common fate for autistic people who fall through the wide holes left in a social safety net woven by those who have never experienced need, never experienced true fear, and thus fail to foresee how it might fray and snap and abandon those who need it most — those who live in a world of sudden, unpredictable violence and constant want.This is why it is important when we ask for change that we are direct, specific, and dedicated. We must be ever aware of how ineffective policies may be hiding the true extent of a problem rather than solving it — and ask ourselves who isn’t being included in the conversation because they have been relegated to the margins of society. We can never forget that the strange and the different are far too easy not to care about, and we must demand that their dignity and their rights be taken into account by the powers that be.
Introducing the #GetToKnow Project and #YEGWAAD
Autism Edmonton and Adarius 4 Autism are proud to launch the #GetToKnow Project: A joint initiative to promote awareness, understanding and acceptance of Autism Spectrum Disorder. The #GetToKnow project is an interactive and informative presentation designed to be shared with students in Grades 4-12, and includes a full video and #GetToKnow Guide for educators to run the activities in their classroom or school. The #GetToKnow Guide includes the exercise descriptions as well as talking points for teachers to facilitate a conversation about autism with their students following each activity.












