Living independently will look different for everyone

The journey to living independently and the steps involved vary from person to person.

Daily activities, like keeping your space clean, making meals, and maintaining hygiene with regular showers are part of independent living. It is important to understand what daily living activities you can do on your own and where you might need help. This way, you can plan for independent living more effectively.

To figure out your skills and areas where you might need assistance, ask yourself these questions:

  • What skills do I already have that would help me live independently?

  • What skills do I want to improve so I can live more independently?

  • What kind of support might I need in place before I move to set myself up for success?

Once you have answered these questions, you may wish to go through the checklists below of common tasks. Using these checklists can help you identify areas where you may need support with daily living activities. Some tasks are related to:

  • Financial management
  • Home management
  • Organization
  • Personal care
  • Personal safety
  • Transportation

For each task in these lists, determine the level of support you think you would typically need. It could be:

  • I can do this task without any help
  • I can do this task on my own, but might need some support or help planning
  • I need someone to work with me one-on-one to complete this task

Now, you might have a better idea of what you’re good at and where you can improve!

Let’s reflect a bit! Consider asking yourself:

  • What are my areas of strength?
  • What areas do I want to get better at so I can live independently?
  • Can I use my areas of strengths to get better at the things I want to improve?

Consider an area you want to improve on and let’s come up with some ideas! Here are some ways to learn a new skill or get support. See which ones could work for you:

  • Ask people you know how they would go about learning the specific skill(s) you are interested in.

    • For example, if you want to learn about budgeting, you could ask them how they learned or what steps they took.
  • Ask for support from people you know in finding resources to teach you about the specific skill(s) you are interested in.

    • For example, if I want to learn about using public transportation, you can ask someone where you can find resources to learn.
  • See if there is an app on the app store that could help you build your identified skill(s).

    • For example, there are many apps for things like organization through the use of calendars or reminders.
  • Find out if any services could help with those skill(s).

    • For example, if grocery shopping is difficult, you might be able to find meal delivery services.
  • Try searching on the internet for specific opportunities to learn that skill.

    • For example, if you are in Edmonton and want to make a fire safety plan, you can search “resources for making a fire safety plan in Edmonton”, or you could be more general and search “how to make a fire safety plan.”
  • Explore existing supports in your community.

    • See if there are free or low-cost community services that can help you.. For example, if you find that you can’t go grocery shopping because prices are too high, there may be low-cost community alternatives for buying certain products, such as produce (fruits and vegetables).

Sometimes, learning a new skill so that we can do a  task independently can be tough, or we might not have the capacity to do so. In this case, think about one of the tasks you said you’d need one-on-one support with.

You could use the same ideas above to find supports in the community or even housing options that include help for those tasks. You might also be able to get financial assistance or services from the Province of Alberta to support you!

As you go through this information, if there is something that you would like help with, please reach out for assistance.